Thursday, April 24, 2008

In Loving Memory of Sweet Baby James




April 20th was the 2nd anniversary of James passing. We all met up at 5:00 at the gravesite and was able to pay full attention to this little boy that has changed all of our lives one way or another. I didn't know James all that well. He was born while I was on my mission and then when I came home they lived in Las Vegas. I was blessed to go and stay with my cousin and her family for about a week or so. James was a beautiful and so sweet! I was amazed at the wonderful role that my cousin took on as a mother and wife. The love that they had for this child was crystal clear and I know can comprehend how much a parent loves their child.
At the graveside Michelle shared some thoughts, we sang some songs, and then a closing prayer was given. People were able to let their balloons go. Michelle had a very hard time letting hers go. After word we embraced and shared some tears. I told her why I knew it was hard for her to let go of her balloon....I said it was because it is a symblolize of her letting go of James. We all long to reunite with James for not only does his immediate family miss him but so does everyone that got the changes to share a few moments of this earth life with him.
I am very grateful that I was able to pay my respects to James and to be their for my best friend as they have to go through this very tuff trial. I am so grateful to know that she is married to a wonderful husband and is blessed with two other children. The Lord is very mindful of her and even though at times we feel alone we must remember that if we turn to him he will always be intune with us. This family is a great example to me and I love them very much! We love and miss you Sweet Baby James!

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